We had some pretty rough times during our dating years and engagement period. Some find our story comical and others (that knew us then) don't find it so comical. We had planned to marry a year sooner, however I had no peace about the date. It was one of the hardest decisions I ever made to postpone the wedding until after I graduated college and it broke Brian's heart. Looking back we both know in our hearts it was the right thing to do. Instead of walking down the isle with doubts and fears I walked down with peace, happiness and bliss. I feel as if our marriage had a better start as a result of waiting and I can honestly say every year with Brian has become even better and sweeter than the last. However, at that time it wasn't so easy to feel, say, and think that way.I was reminded of that fact today as I was going through some journals. For Valentines Day 2004 (the year we were supposed to get married) Brian made me a "Cold Feet Survival kit" in order to help me with my plaguing doubts. At, a difficult and confusing time for me it really did make me feel special. It was such a clever gift! Since this was the time of year we got engaged I thought I would blog about the items that he put inside and share a sweet memory with you.
A hammer: to help you nail down those last few doubts.
A sewing kit: use this when you feel like you are coming apart at the seams. 
If you lose your marbles here are some extras.
A glue stick: for when you are coming unglued.
A yo-yo: if at the end of your string the only place left to go is up. 
A compass: use this when you don't know where to turn. 
A "Romance for Dummies" book: if fiance' is acting mean, break seal and read to him. 
A battery: if out of energy lick this. 
Push button for a reminder of how it felt when we first kissed. 
A reminder that you hold the key to my heart. 
Hersey hug and kiss: to remind you that mine are sweeter than candy. 
Being married to you will be more fun than a barrel of monkeys! (And that has been so true!)
Socks: if your feet are feeling really cold wear these. 
3 comments:
Oh that is so cute! I never knew Brian was so creative :) Thanx for sharing this with us.
I never knew about Brian's SO creative side either! This is a sweet memory and I'm so thankful that you wedding day was just so blissful and you were just so grounded and so ready! Love you both and I'm so thankful that you guys just grow more in love each year! It's very sweet.
What a sweetheart! I had no idea he was so clever! So sweet!
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